The Pros & Cons of Working At Home

At last! Another week has ended. And it's been two weeks or so since I started to work at home. It's both fun and pressure. Yes, pressure because I still hasn't learned to "fully" discipline myself. I could still find myself catching up with time. But nevertheless, all is well. It's kind of better compared to the kind of stress that working in a "care-less" company could give. I feel more in-control of myself. It's not like I don't fancy working with a group. In fact, I'm a teamplayer. It's just that, things got out of hand with my previous employer. Even so, I will always cherish the moments I spent on that company. There's no point bearing grudges on anybody. 

I have a lot of plans, even before I started. I thought of implementing a consistent exercise routine because that was one of the many important things that I thought I had no time to deal with. But of course, the truth is that I was only pretty lazy to do so. Now that I have more time and freedom to do so, I thought it should be one of my priorities. Right now, it's kind of difficult to immediately put my plans into action. But I know that I will eventually be able to achieve my goals and long-term plans. *hopefully :)

Working at home has a lot of pros and cons. If you're rather disciplined and determined to stick to your schedule, then you can certainly do a lot of more productive things. But if you're the type who always thinks that he could beat the challenge of time and the mood swings of fate, then you're likely find yourself stressed out for being lax and irresponsible. And I don't want to become one of those who didn't "make it big" in the field of home-based working. So I better straighten myself out and be up to becoming a better person. nyay!

pros:

- I can wake up late, provided the boss is okay with extending work schedule

- I can do push-ups, squats and other hilarious exercise/stretching routines when I'm bored or sleepy during working hours

- I can watch tv or listen to loud music of my choice

- I can take a nap? (but of course! as long as there's no deadline or the boss is out. lol)

- I can roam around the house and do whatever I want to (doesn't make sense at all. haha)

- I can do some household chores?

- many other things, I'm the boss and the keeper of my own time

- less travel expenses and other expenditures

- I don't have to comb my hair or dress decently (hahaha)

- I don't need to interact with immature and stupid people

- I get to challenge myself to become more disciplined, passionate and responsible

cons:

- I'm doomed if I'm lazy

- I don't get to ride public transpo more often

- I only have little exercise if I don't make it a point that I do strict, regular exercise routines

- I'll get fatter if I don't control myself

- Perhaps I'll suffer from separation anxiety since I'm a people-person?

- I don't get to witness other wonders of life or experience the real-world?

- I get easily distracted, more temptations I guess

- many other things I'm too-lazy and too tired to discuss any longer

Well, that's all for now. I have finally decided to blog once a week now that I have 'enough' time and freedom. See you again next week! nyahahaha

11-11-11 (The Start of a New Life)

Well, it's quite evident how popular the date today is. 11-11-11 has raised many issues, and triggered the curiosity of almost everyone; particularly those who are considering marriage, starting up a business, placing bets in the lottery or making any kind of gamble. However, there's no scientific explanation and evidence or something that proves the "special-ness" of the said numbers. It could be that something good is going to happen, nothing's gonna transpire at all, or something bad is going to take place in a large scale.

For me, this day signifies the start of a new life. Sort of too late to think of beginnings seeing how fast-approaching December (and the New Year) is? Well, not really. I guess it's a perfect time to let go of negativities and move forward for a more prosperous and productive life. Lot of unpleasant things happened to me and my family these past few months, so I think we deserve a break. Especially that my brother is about to come home! Our family's about to get completed, and I can't wait to see the day that we're happily bonding with each other again.

Besides, I was born on the 11th day of April. So, somehow, the day is very special to me. It simply means a lot of opportunities to start anew!

You are what makes each day special.

I am quite getting the hang of working at home. I have found a really nice client; a kind of boss that puts more effort into shaping the skills and passion of his workers. I feel so blessed to have been given the opportunity to work for him, and with my friend. Life's really different when you're inside your own world; you're the keeper of your own time. But I know it takes a lot of self-control to succeed in such endeavor. But so far so good, eh?! :)

The scent and feel of Christmas is already in the Air! And although we still don't have any decors or something, I am so excited for such occasion. The thought of us gathering makes me giggle with anticipation. I know most people feel the same. But come to think of it, many families are in a dire situation these days. I pray for them, that they may have the strength to move on. Lately, the world has become a battleground for survival. Perhaps, the end is really near. I just hope that things will get better next year, if there is still... ;)

On Fighting Indecision

I used to be indecisive; now I'm not sure.

Indecisiveness is one of my weaknesses that I really hope to overcome. I always have a difficulty making up my mind, particularly when it comes to making choices or when choosing from a number of options. Maybe it's because I tend to be impulsive at times. And in order for me to minimize the impulsiveness, I see to it that I don't immediately make decisions, especially when it comes to money matters and other serious issues. But most of the time, I see myself trapped between the given options that I worry about the consequences.

There is no more miserable human being than one in whom nothing is habitual but indecision

I have learned to overcome an indecision issue that troubled me these past few days. And it feels so great to know that you have conquered something that's not actually a big deal as long as you clear your mind and focus on dealing with the dilemma. It's really wise to take things slowly, one step at a time. There's no point worrying about everything when you could not even do something about a few, small problems.

I realized that indecision often takes place if you don't actually know what you want -- if you don't know what you want to happen, what you want to achieve, where you want to go, or who you want to be with. If you don't know where to start or how to get things started, then chances are, you are not going to get anywhere and be able to do whatever that needs to be done. It's also a matter of priorities. 

You need to define your goals and objectives. You have to assess your capacity; figure out your limits, but be open to all the possibilities so that you can get over your boundaries. You need to determine and set your priorities. From there, you can effectively decide what you need to accomplish first. You can then make a more appropriate and rewarding decision.

It is human nature to stand in the middle of a thing.

A Lonesome Halloween? x_x

Happy Halloween, everyone!! :D

This is perhaps the first halloween that I'm going to spend without my mother and siblings. They went to our province, and left me alone in our "once-creepy" apartment. But I'm not really going to spend the night alone. I asked my granny and her "assistant" to come over so I won't end up a lunatic the next morning. haha. Besides, I don't really think that I'm alone; you know what I mean. But of course, as long as "they" don't freak me out, I'll be fine.

And since I informed my friends about my situation, they bombarded me with creey teases and stuff. Even my brother and sister left me some very remarkable "words of wisdom." Even so, I know better than to simply let my fears and hallucinations take over me. I turned the radio on so that Christian music from our local Hope101 channel would envelope the house with God's presence instead. Well, hopefully...

Costume parties are everywhere. And while many people are busy preparing for their halloween parties/trick or treat events, I am rather pre-occupied by my plans for the future and my so-called masterpiece for a friend who's going to leave the country soon. Yes, I was pretty creative and determined (these past few days) to finish something that would serve as a heart-warming remembrance. I just wish he'd like and appreciate it.

Anyway, lots of bad things are happening nowadays. Christmas is fast-approaching, but I'm still in the lookout for the best and most credible way to generate a steady income. Hopefully, things will get better soon. And oh, I can smell the beach; I guess there'd be island hopping this weekend. Weeeee! :D

The Start Of A New Life ^_^

Well, well, well... Look who's back! :))

A lot of (bad) things happened this year; one of the many reasons why I couldn't find the time to update this blog. And of course, I'm a lazy bum. But now, I think I would have more time to blog and do many other things that I've always wanted to do. I just hope that motivation, perseverance and patience won't run out that fast. :D

After four years of working for "that" company, I decided to submit my resignation and start a new life where better options are waiting. Well, I'm still in the stage of adjustment. However, I know that soon enough I will be able to get hold of the kind of life that I've always wanted to live. Hopefully, there'd be lesser sources of stress and more triggers of success. I know I can do this. There may be some barriers or obstacles, but I'm quite certain I could overcome them all.

From now on, I will be working at home. Through this, I will have more chances of testing my level of consistency, discipline, determination and patience. I'm pretty sure that this kind of work, and life, needs more courage, persistence and discipline. I slack off, and I'm doomed. But I'm the keeper of my own time and efforts. There'd be less pressure and more time to do more meaningful things. And I don't get to mingle with annoying people everyday. Just me, myself and I. I know it will be pretty hard at first, but I won't give up.

On Failures and Success... x_x

One of the things I thought could help me make memories, and somehow help me change my ways or something like it, was to ask my friends to give me a dare or a challenge. Dares that could either improve my skills or help me learn new ones. Challenges that would test my courage and extend whatever I have. And those (25) dares are to be done on or before my birthday.

Well, some of my friends gave me difficult ones which I really liked, and some settled for things that I don't usually do. One of my best friends even warned me - "be careful with what you wish for..." :D

There are those who asked me to dress up so they can see me in a different light. hahaha. And those that merely wanted to see me in my most gruesome state. My seatmate/teammate/close buddy Cecille challenged me to consume "strawberry-inspired" goodies. Yes, I hate strawberries. My belly and taste buds are not compatible with strawberries. Fortunately, my friend was kind enough not to make me eat all the things that I hate. Lucky for me, I finished the dare without making any unpleasant scene. haha

Just let me enumerate all the dares I was able to do so far. Unfortunately, I didn't succeed on most of them. Several negative forces made their way to ensure my failure. But the thing is, I learned my lessons well. So it doesn't really matter if I failed. Uhm, on the second thought, I'd be much happier if I was able to finish them all with flying colors. oh well, whatever :P

Oh, see you on the next post. hahaha (my head is aching so bad I have to stop. ugh, If only my hand could do the talking without causing further pain to my head... lol)

Failure doesn't mean you are a failure... it just means you haven't succeeded yet.

Catching Up ^_^

Well, well, well... it's been a long time since I managed to make a post for this blog. Wohoo!

I actually wanted to make a new post last April 1 but my office friends invited me for a videoke bonding. Besides, I had a hard time logging in because I forgot about my account details. haha

Kidding aside, I really want this month to be a special one because I'll be turning 25 a few days from now! :D In fact, I was able to come up with a lot of things that could help me make more memories! :D And of course, help me become a better person.. *coughs :)

This year started okay; however, many different issues spiced up my routines. I made new friends, and somehow, I also managed to piss a few people... haha. I also have this "ups and downs" with a certain close friend. But I guess that's all it takes to strengthen our friendship. And while I'm trying hard (or am I really doing something) to become a pleasant member of the family, I still can't help but mess things up. Gosh, life is really something.

I thought that reaching the age of 25 should be the turning point of my life. I've been planning a lot of things, and hopefully, I can live up most of my dreams and goals. It's really hard to focus on something, especially that I always end up feeling bored doing the same thing. But hopefully, I can start things right and be able to finish something that could tell the world "I was here."